I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU

"Life is unpredictable, it changes with the seasons. Even your coldest winter happens for the best of reasons; and though it feels eternal, like all you'll ever do is freeze, I promise that in spring, you'll be blessed with brand new leaves."

 

Happy first day of Spring, friends.

It has been one hell of a ride getting here, but I have learned so much about myself along the way. Mainly about my own emotions, and my strength.

I have realized that healing is dealt with differently with everyone, and that trying to make myself better so quickly was actually slowing down my process. Funny, huh? I read somewhere that healing can be looked at as a wave. It comes in waves and maybe today and tomorrow the waves hit rock bottom—that is okay, because you are still healing.

Change the locks of your doors. Chances are that through your healing you have changed, and how couldn't you? Everything in your life has changed.

Feed your soul the things it needs in order to grow. Find a new hobby, a new song you admire or a new place that relaxes you. Make connections with people; people that love who you are as a person; people that nourish you; and people that are kind, compassionate and real with you.

So, what if instead of thinking about solving your whole life, you just think about adding additional good things. One at a time. Just let your pile of good things grow.